Perry Mayo-Malasky
I, am Philip, estranged brother of Dr. Charlotte Malasky. I created this website in the hope of conveying to my long-lost nephews, Henry, Huntly, and Perry, the reason I was not a part of their lives while they were growing up. As their uncle, a senior citizen with a history of lung cancer, it is my hope to have a relationship with them before I die.
From Philip
To my nephews, Dr. Henry Mayo- Malasky, Huntly Mayo-Malasky, and Perry Mayo-Malasky
I tried reaching out to have a relationship with you, even at this late date. I reconnected with Charlotte for several years and asked her repeatedly to put me in touch with you, but she refused. I begged her.
After tons of online research, I finally found Huntly, and later Henry. Apparently, Perry was no longer working at Bank of America, and Paul and Henry both said words to the effect that he was no longer in touch with the family. I asked Paul repeatedly for Perry’s phone or email, but he never gave them to me, apparently because Charlotte blocked him from doing so.
Huntly and I ate lunch one time, and he enjoyed it enough to ask for another lunch meeting. Several weeks later, I asked Huntly to put in a good word with my sister Charlotte, in the hopes she would put me in touch with the rest of my family, and Huntly abruptly stopped answering my calls, texts, and emails. When I asked Paul why, he said, to the best of my recollection, “You put him in the line of fire”, referring to Charlotte.
I spoke with Henry once, after locating his phone number through a contact online. He said he was on vacation in France and that he’d be home in several weeks. I tried calling Henry in several weeks and he never picked up. Never answered my texts. Then I found out from Paul that Henry moved out to Kansas City to work in a hospital out there. So, something or someone apparently stopped him from connecting with me.
With no other way I could see to contact you, my nephews, to explain why I have not been in your lives for so long, my only option left seems to be to go online with the info, in the hopes you will read it and see why I was not a part of your lives for so long. I believe it was because of my relationship with Charlotte and the apparently intentional roadblocks she set up to make it impossible for me to be a part of the family.
There are other incidents as well, which I will add to this site later so that you can further grasp this whole predicament.
I am posting this in the hopes you will read it and understand my position, and hopefully establish a relationship with me, your uncle Philip.
The following is a letter I sent to Charlotte, via Paul, since she has told me she blocked my emails. Paul was a part of this situation, and I am sure you can confirm with him that the events I recall in this letter are accurately depicted.
Letter to Charlotte
Dear Charlotte,
You are my sister, and I love you, and as you know, I have cancer. As a doctor, you know how unpredictable this terminal disease is, so there is no telling what the future will bring. With this in mind, I was hoping that we could resolve our differences of opinion so that you would allow me to be a part of the family.
As you recall, some 37 years ago, I crawled to you on my hands and knees and begged you to loan me $15,000 for fertility treatments so that my wife and I could have a baby. You refused.
You did so by writing me a letter and giving it to Paul to hand to me, which he did at Beth Israel. I still have that letter. I point this out because I don’t want you to use the term ‘misremembered ‘ as it pertains to this, as you have done so with other things I’ve pointed out in the past.
That said, I would like you to apologize to my wife and me for not lending us the money we needed to have a baby and start a family.
I told you and Paul before that I was willing to let this go, without an apology, in the hopes you would welcome me back into the family, at this late stage of our lives. Instead, you have done everything in your power to keep me from having a family, both before, when I asked you for the loan to have treatments, and now that you refuse to put me in touch with my nephews, Henry, Huntley, and Perry, and their families.
In the past 3 years or so, since we have met several times on social occasions, you have created impossible obstacles that stood in the way of my having a family. Your main bone of contention was that I didn’t get the job you demanded as a requirement to meet with family members
Making this condition a requirement to see my family has harmed my wife and me tremendously.
It would be kind of you to accept responsibility for the effect your actions have had on our lives and to apologize to my wife and me for them so we could move forward and start to mend.
Your Brother,
Philip
*While it is a fact that I sent this letter, it’s contents are solely my opinion and subject to interpretation.
Dr. Charlotte Malasky with son, Dr. Henry Mayo-Malasky
